It’s not your actions that are important but your intention!
Sit with this, move beyond your justifications.
Be honest, allow the possibility that your actions may be motivated by fear, manipulation and control.
Open that door and let the light in.
It’s time we recognised the elephant in the room and invited it to the party.
It’s ok, it does not make you a bad person but it can lead you to balance and unity.
Don’t deny half of you, reconcile both halves to bring in a Unity state.
Make friends with your elephant, he may be big and clumsy and he may destroy your furniture and your house but he isn’t bad, he just wants to be seen and when you recognise that he no longer has to hide under the table creating havoc in your life.