Good Morning, two energies have become predominant for this weekend. They are silent yet strong, one expands and creates harmony peace and love the other is restrictive and causes frustration anger and upset.
As this weekend is going to be relatively quiet and reflective, it is a good time for you to have a look at these energies, what they feel like and what they mean for you and your life.
Remember everything we bring in, keep or let go from our life is our choice, things do not happen to us, we are not passive victims. So take some time to consciously look at these energies, they are all around so you can really bring them into your bodies and feel them, this will help you see how these energies are affecting your lives.
The first energy is one that many of us seem to use daily, so much so that it has become part of us and we don’t even realise that it is something we can release….Expectation!
Expectation kills creativity and flow. It restricts the energy of any project idea or thought. It puts unreasonable and rather stunted demands on others and breeds frustration and disappointment.
One of the hardest things that we have to do, in work and our personal lives is managing the expectations of others, however once we deal with our own expectations and the reactions when things to not occur as expected then we release ourselves from the chain of expectation of others.
Many clairvoyants etc have a hard time with expectations, as this is a strong energy it can sometimes be confused with messages or divination. Also depending upon how much clearing or conditioning they have with regard to people pleasing, this can significantly alter a reading. However these are often quite popular, as they give people want they want, they meet their expectations and therefore they leave feeling good.
When you start to look at expectation, yours and others, the energy is palpable, you can recognise it in an instant and step over it or remove yourself from that energy. So contemplate this over the weekend.
The second energy which is particularly beautiful and wonderful is forgiveness, it is however an energy that is often ignored and turned away from.
Forgiveness for ourselves and others is absolutely key in our search for happiness but it is an energy that we often struggle with. It can make us feel weak to forgive when someone has wronged us so badly, or it may imply that we have forgotten or we are saying that another’s actions are ok. This is not the case. Forgiveness is about recognising actions and how we may react to them and then letting it go. Forgiveness allows us to stay firmly in the present rather than living in the past or projecting to the future. Forgiveness allows us to move from a tense state to a relaxed one. Forgiveness allows us to let it go and move on freely.
Forgiveness is love and it is a gift for all. What does is matter if you were right ? If you want to hold on to hurt and pain, then you are condemning yourself to a life half lived and for what, what exactly does it achieve? To forgive is expansive and it is beautiful.
Forgiving yourself is also paramount and when you first begin your processing and taking full responsibility for your life you will need this energy at hand at all time!
At first forgiving yourself is tough and rather alien, an unbalanced ego has a tendency to either deny there is any need for forgiveness, as we just have not done anything we need to take responsibility for or we beat ourselves up so badly about it that we leave ourselves a bloody mess on the floor.
The beauty with bringing in the energy of forgiveness is it shows we are consciously living our lives, we can revel in the delight that we are aware of our behaviour, however unpleasant and we are taking steps to address and release that part of it, forgiving ourselves is key, otherwise it is just our ego holding attention in the court of drama.
And yes we deserve this forgiveness, we all do, as do those in your life. If you look at any incident in your life where you feel wronged there is always a lesson or a positive, always! Things don’t just happen they are ALWAYS an opportunity to learn more about ourselves, not others that is deflection and drama but about ourselves!
So take this rather awesome energetic weekend which is reflective, calm and grounded and look at yourself, your life, your dreams, your expectations and your perceived downfalls and see the journey you on and no matter how far off course you may feel, you are still firmly on your path. But maybe you are looking down at your feet and not moving forward, so this weekend make a conscious decisions to hold your head up high, take a deep breath and walk with purpose on your path.
The energies are changing again next week and this time I feel a call to action, it’s time to GO GO GO, so use this weekend and this energy wisely.
Lots of love and laughter Michele xxxxxxxxx